How to Tell How He Really Feels

A is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I wake up every day feeling 100% blessed to be living this life with him. Some days, when he’s napping and I get to hold his hand, I can’t help but think that I honestly might be on a cloud in a dreamworld.

Don’t get me wrong, not everything is perfect all the time. In fact, let me give you all a little advice about relationships- they take work. Love doesn’t just happen. You have to work for what you want and be the change you want to see in your life. If I just sat back on my heels I doubt A and I would have what we have today. I made this relationship happen.

One way to make things easier in a relationship is definitely communication. I feel that sometimes communication is hard for the strong male figure (like my hunky A, for example), which is why I have come up with a really brilliant way to let couples talk.

With a printout survey.

How he really feels

This survey is designed to pose delicate questions about love in a way that your significant other feels comfortable answering. Just print it out, leave it with your partner (along with a pen, duh) and give them twenty minutes to fill out. When you come back you can read through it and see how they really feel.

I recently tried this with A and it was totally eye opening. I had no idea he felt the way he did about so many topics!

Here are A’s answers.

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12 Comments

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    Rebecca
    June 15, 2016 at 10:42 am

    Secret Fire is my fave Johanna Lindsey book!!!

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    Tori Anne
    June 15, 2016 at 1:01 pm

    This is EXACTLY what I needed in my relationship. Communication with my hubby is so so hard, but I think this will help! Thnx!

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    grandma
    June 15, 2016 at 7:41 pm

    Can’t wait to use this survey! Do you have a version on survey monkey? First step, find a new husband.

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    Helga
    June 19, 2016 at 11:21 am

    Just made my boyfriend take this and he ripped it up and burned it and then walked out. I think we’re finally getting somewhere, thank you!!

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      Phyllis
      June 22, 2016 at 10:11 am

      Haha cute!

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    Paula
    June 21, 2016 at 12:33 am

    Can you make one for sisters? I think my sister wants to have me murdered so something like this would really help.

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      Phyllis
      June 22, 2016 at 10:10 am

      Thanks for reading, Paula! Yes I will work on that 🙂

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    Nina
    June 21, 2016 at 7:15 am

    What should I say if my boyfriend doesn’t like to read or write?

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      Phyllis
      June 22, 2016 at 10:10 am

      Hey Nina, good question!

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    Trudee M
    June 27, 2016 at 2:57 am

    Hey. I’m a long time reader, first time poster.
    First, I think you really hit home when you said that communication is important.
    My mom always said it’s the most important thing in a relationship.
    Second, I love the idea of a written survey.
    I don’t think men have enough opportunities to write their feelings.
    I’m definitely going to give this to the hubs.
    Thx!

    -Trudee
    Follow me @ http://www.judgejudy.com/submit_your_case

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    Keyla
    July 13, 2016 at 8:46 pm

    Wow, my boyfriend is out of the country right now so reading this was pretty hard. So many feelings came up. As a welcome home present, I think I will print 20-25 copies to make a journal so he has a chance to really explore how he feels about our relationship day to day. The ultimate test will be whether he will share the survey journal with me at the end. If he doesn’t share it with me I’ll be devastated.

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