A is the best thing that has ever happened to me. I wake up every day feeling 100% blessed to be living this life with him. Some days, when he’s napping and I get to hold his hand, I can’t help but think that I honestly might be on a cloud in a dreamworld.
Don’t get me wrong, not everything is perfect all the time. In fact, let me give you all a little advice about relationships- they take work. Love doesn’t just happen. You have to work for what you want and be the change you want to see in your life. If I just sat back on my heels I doubt A and I would have what we have today. I made this relationship happen.
One way to make things easier in a relationship is definitely communication. I feel that sometimes communication is hard for the strong male figure (like my hunky A, for example), which is why I have come up with a really brilliant way to let couples talk.
With a printout survey.
This survey is designed to pose delicate questions about love in a way that your significant other feels comfortable answering. Just print it out, leave it with your partner (along with a pen, duh) and give them twenty minutes to fill out. When you come back you can read through it and see how they really feel.
I recently tried this with A and it was totally eye opening. I had no idea he felt the way he did about so many topics!
Here are A’s answers.